In today’s world, having children is no longer viewed as a fundamental life step—it’s increasingly seen as a luxury that many can’t afford. Fertility rates have sharply declined in many countries, and the reasons go far beyond biology.
Raising a child today comes with a growing list of financial, emotional, and social demands. The cost of living continues to rise—from housing, education, and healthcare to even the simplest forms of childcare—all of which have become heavy burdens on families. For young couples, having more than one child often seems like an almost impossible choice amid these pressures and the modern parenting challenges that have become overwhelming in a world full of rapid change.
Modern life has also increased the expectations placed on parents. It’s no longer just about financial support, but also constant care, early education, entertainment, and emotional guidance. While this shift brings positive aspects, it places significant pressure on parents trying to balance their careers and family lives.
In addition, ideas around personal freedom and lifestyle have contributed to a reluctance to have children. Many are unwilling to give up travel, leisure, or career advancement in exchange for the lifelong responsibility of raising kids. In this context, children are no longer viewed as the natural center of family life, but rather as a choice that requires deep financial and personal sacrifice.
In the end, the issue isn’t that people don’t want children, but that modern society has made the desire for them accompanied by fear and anxiety. If this trend continues, we must ask ourselves: What kind of world are we living in, where raising children has become such a daunting task?
